I am lady meeting her 50th in one year and do not want to spend any more time I have left alone. I am not in a hurry and will expect gentlemen to date me 1st. I do not want anyone who is desperate for sex. I love pets and hope that you would too. I have a casual lifestyle and try to live organized as daily life allows. I would be happy to learn about sports. This would be something new to me. I am very active with helping my family. I am loving and devoted. I like to think I am attractive. But of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I am not skinny and I do have a hour glass shape even though I have a few extra pounds. I do not expect perfection. Life just isn't that kind. Looking for a loving, kind, and happy man. Someone who is observant of others around him and is attentive to care. I expect cleanliness, unless we are both at the gym or in the garden etc... I love to garden. It is not a necessity for you to like everything that I do.

Our first date, would be a morning walk and a stop for breakfast. Then a stop at the book store or the local Share Stuff. I think it would be more fun to adventure to places new to both of us. We could go to the library and search for local events etc... on the internet. Read the weather alerts just incase. If we get caught in the rain it may get a little romantic. It is winter now so we definitely need to plan well. Safety first. Lunch could be fun sitting at a bistro watching the snow fall at a window table then we can share snow stories drinking some hot cocoa and some hot soup. Afterwards maybe take in a afternoon movie. Now if your up for the outdoor activities we could check out the night christmas lights in the Windy City. Or just drive around town. After that we could see how things are going and decide if we are ready to make a second date.