Please do me a favor and actually read my profile so you can eliminate right off the bat if you are going to waste my time and yours. I am probably one of the most easy people to get along with. I have a strong head on my shoulders and need to meet somebody that can actually hold an intelligent conversation with me. In my free time I try to go to the gym and workout. When I can actually get there it's a good way for me to get my frustrations out. In the summer I spend a lot of time down the shore at my condo. I am a total beach bum. I also love spending time with my friends and family. My family is super important to me. I'm also the type of person that would do anything for anybody that is close to me. Please don't send me messages that say hey, whats up. Try starting out with something that has some depth to it. I would assume that if you're sending me a message in the first place chances are you want to get to know me and by asking me whats up you aren't accomplishing anything. Oh and to the guys that have kids. More power to ya and I think its great. Thats just not something that I want in my life right now, well actually i'll probably never want to be with a man that already has children. To me it just complicates things. I don't want baby mamma drama. Sorry. Please dont take offense. I hate emailing and instant messaging and all that other crap so if u really wanna chat and arent a freak I would rather just exchange numbers. You can get to know somebody a hell of a lot better that way. Also, I am not racist by any means but I don't date outside of my race. Again, I am not racist, its just something that I don't do. So please dont take offense to that and please dont send me nasty messages, everybody has their own preferences and I am entitled to mine. Im just being honest. And one more thing, guys when I get e-mails from you and the shirt is off and your taking the picture yourself in front of the mirror, I cant help but laugh! What is going through your heads when you do that? LOL! I am on this site to try to find somebody that I can start a real relationship with. I have had enough of the high school games that people still feel the need to play. We are grown ups and with that comes acting like a grown up. So if you aren't looking for something that has the potential of turning into a serious relationship please DO NOT waste my time by sending me messages.

On a first date it is all about getting to know each other. I would have to say dinner and drinks. I'm not talking about a club or anything like that. It would have to be a restaurant setting. I don't want there to be a ton a noise in the backround when I am trying to get to know somebody. If we didnt want to do the dinner and drinks thing we could change it up and do something fun. It really depends on the person. As long as I was in good company I would be down to do anything. I would like the attention to be on the date and not the surroundings. Basically, I just want to have a good time. Going out to the clubs can be for the second date!