there are a ton of women on this site and plenty close to charlotte but i have no idea what any of you are looking for .. i don't drink, smoke or do drugs .. i have never been in jail .. i am college educated .. being a former minor league hockey player i am still physically fit ..i am not real short or too tall ... my picture is fairly current and though i am not robert redford i am not frankenstein either ... there seems to be way more women on this site than men ..does that mean men die off before women or are women looking for mr perfect ... i don't think he is out there .. or do women run for the hills at even the first mention of physical intimacy .. please, somebody clue me in ...

first date !!! , hell, i would be happy with a first email ...