About my life and what I'm looking for

I'm very creative, outgoing, down to earth, happy-go-lucky - yet deep thinker, kind-of-guy. I worked full time as college professor (20yrs) and a real estate broker (currently). I formally worked as a family counselor, family court mediator, acquisition broker, dynamic seminar speaker, wine clerk, mens retail clothing, etc. I'm a great conversationalist and super easy to talk to. I've traveled about 18 countries and many states. I'm active, love to be adventurous, and long to share my life with a wonderful gal.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys being with her man. Who is active, attractive, outgoing, nice shape, likes people and enjoys making a difference. She likes adventure and travel, and enjoys friends from all walks of life. A woman who is witty and intelligent, has a sense of depth, appreciates a good man, relishes good conversation, open and/or seeks personal growth and improvement (emotionally, spiritually, physically). I am especially enamored by a woman who is able to keep that fun and playful "little girl" alive within her. I like a woman is who is generally "calm, cool and collected". I'm simply not compatible with a "drama queen" type. I like the dramatic and crazy when it comes to playing and goofing off... but have difficulty with
a woman who consistently makes grand emotional mountains out of molehills...ya know all those old sayings, ...life is short, ...pick your battles well, ...don't sweat the
small stuff. Overall, I'm a nice guy, and I don't create a lot of conflict. So, for you gals who are addicted to negative excitement and conflict (you know who you are), write me and I'll send you some book titles that can help out (seriously -I'm happy to help), but I don't think we should date.

A cup of coffee and nice glass of wine some place fun. Of course, it's all about talking,
and having fun conversation. I'll be "dressy casual" hoping to look nice for you. Dress up and "big" date aren't for strangers (...sorry).