Let's be real here. Some people are just window shopping, some like the thrill of dating multiple people and some truly seek a solid relationship. I am in the last category.

It would be absolutely fantastic to just connect with a great woman and then build a lasting relationship. We should have some shared interests and some things that we do without each other. Some space in a relationship allows for growth. Age is not relevant.

At this age nobody is perfect and everyone has some residuals from prior relationships however connecting on all levels with someone can be done.

Seek the inner qualities of someone - will they be there for you when you need them or are they just shallow and self-absorbed leaving you out in the cold.

So please just be genuine, honest, humble, reliable, considerate, caring and affectionate along with a nice smile. Smart and fun help too!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_HaoZ73wWg

A brief meeting for coffee/tea. First dates are for getting a feeling about a person...the location and details are less important.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzYBuKaQ83s&feature=related