I hate this part everyone's always sounds the same!! So how do I stand out and not sound like everyone else...

First and foremost I am a mom of 3 amazing kids... they have probably taught me more than I have ever taught them... two boys 17 and 15 and a daughter 10... ( never said they taught me things I wanted to learn lol)seriously they are loving, caring, and the strongest kids!!

Yes I am a widow but do not let that scare you... I am more than ready to move on...I thank god everyday for the time I got to spend with him... But it has been almost 4 years time to live again!!

I love all types of music and love going to concerts local bars ect to listen to live music... I always have some type of music on...

I do smoke trying to quit damn it is hard lol... so I have cut way back...

I may not be "skinny" (pretty face chubby waist lol) but I am a very active person I hate sitting around... do not get me wrong sitting back watching a movie or cuddling is a great thing just not all day!!

I love the outdoors so try to spend as much time as I can outside... we go camping as much as possible... love to go for walks, swimming, amusement parks, mudding, sledding, camping, bon fires, you name it I even love to go fishing, okay so now my country girl side is coming out lol Hey what can I say I grew up in Indian River MI and go back to visit as much as possible!!

I am not a bar fly do not get me wrong I love going out and having a good time with friends but it is not my life I do not sit around all week waiting for the weekend so I can go party!!

I am not shy on here... but I am in person at least at first then it goes away... I HATE DRAMA I do not bring nor do I want to be in it...

In all reality I would love to find the "ONE" my best friend my soul mate...

I guess I am just living my life to the fullest and loving it... you only have one life on this earth and it is short so have fun, smile, and laugh as much as possible...

I could keep going on... But seriously if I still have your attention then drop me a line... If nothing else friends are great to have!!


What I want is someone caring loving and compassionate...
Someone I feel safe in his arms and love being there...
Someone that is goal oriented and knows what they want in life...
someone that is a big kid at heart and loves to laugh and have fun...
someone that loves spending time with family and is not afraid to stand up for what he believes in...
a ONE WOMAN man not multiple women...

Guess it all depends on the person, weather, and what sounds fun!!! Hopefully someplace that we can be ourselves and get to know each other!!! Defiantly have fun with a lot of laughter!!!