About me:

Just a tad bit of info about me...

I hate to brake it 1st of all!...I'm a real woman!! No not a Skinny Minny!I am A little Thicker!! This may scare you off!!! Go Figure!! Don't Like it To Bad!! This is me!! It's is a problem than SEE YA!

I love shopping, spending time with my kids,decorating, dancing, hanging out with Family and Friends, Music, Laughing, Camping, Taking Pictures, Acting Crazy, fishing, my dog memphis, Summertime, and listening to my favorite songs, exploring new business ventures, my job and and all my work piers, selling stuff, making something new out of something old, and most of all being loved. .. ..P.S Imust worn you I am witty, with a great sense of humor, and even sometimes tend to be a little bit of a smart-a**...lol...

I am now a single mother of 3 kids. 16yrs. old, 14 yrs. old, and 9 yrs. (all boys) I work for a long distance company mon-fri as a sales consultant. I am always looking to reach a higher goal in life. When I see something I want I reach until I get it. There is NO EXCUSE for people to use the word I CAN'T. You have one life and you are in the driver seat. I am a very strong headed woman, and I take care of me and mine. My kids are my life, and I will do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for them. I'm looking for a friendship and hopefully more one day.

I want to meet:
A man who is very down to earth and laid back,but at the same time is goal focused as I am looking for someone who isn't a jerk, honest,I want a posotive person, a people person, make me laugh, as well as get along with my kids,& treat me and them with respect. Most of being the best of friends. Oh and must not forget... someone that's a GREAT kisser!!

Update:

I want to show you the crazy side of me....I once read a guys profile who didn't want crazy women to reply... He inspired me to reply with my crazy side.... so here I goes...Am i crazy??? You be the judge...
Oh well....

For example...I like to take ranch dressing and mix it with Franks red hot sauce and dip my pizza in it.... Oh and i love to sleep with a cold pillow...When it turns warm I have to flip it to the cold side..lol....I'll turn on a play list, dance on my bed while looking into my mirror when im bored... I'll act like a little school girl, and then jump off onto the trunk at the foot of the bed....

Told you I was crazy.....I like War movies alot, and don't put sugar in my coffee.... just milk... Favorite things to drink, coffee,iced tea, crystal light, water with lemon, and Bud light lime..(Or if I'm being cheap i will buy bush light and cut limes up and put them in there)....And no I'm not a lush....But I do enjoy drinking socialy.....

I love to sell shit...lol....I don't know how else to say it... Always loved sales.I enjoy creating new ways to generate income. I find the car, u fix it i sell... team work...lol...I'm not fake, not a cheater, was 100% monagonous for 9 1/2 yrs... I have 3 kids who come 1st...

I am about to give up on pof.... this dating thing is kinda getting retarted. Im starting to think im cheating destiny,and that im gonna meet my true love while buying ranch for my red hot sauce at krogers...lol.... Anyhow dont ask why im writing all this,it just seems fun.. I felt inspired to express myself...

So am I crazy? Perhaps but crazy good..This is who I am.. No sugar coating anything...I just want to have fun... be loved again one day and be happy... No bullshit..I want to find somebody eventually where we can be old and decrepted and still find an attraction to one another, reminissing about the good old days.... (while sitting in old wooden rocking chairs telling the same boring stories 1,000 times over...)

I smart-ass in a fun kind of way. Not looking for someone to support me, (well at least not financially) I am (Very independent), nobody wants a grown kid on there hands.. Ive done that and wont do it again...I'm only looking for the best conversations with somebody who makes me Anxious to know everything about them....and someone who I feel would be compatable with my family, and then somebody who will grow old with me........

Well what the hell, I figured I would show you crazy.... sh*tI have nothing to lose...Either you think I am freicken crazier than all hell..... Or you will be intruiged....

Hey thank somebody inspired me to just let loose for a minute and really express myself.... And guess what, now I've expressed myself to all of you....

P.S check out my w w w.m y s p a c e.com/ruthie33baby

I would wanna do something fun.. Not a dinner and movie kinda girl for first date.. Would probably want to meet at club or bar, and kick butt in a couple games of pool coffee shop, park,lazer tag, cj barymores, dave and buster,idk.. anywhere spontanious out in a social setting .. Really anything fun and social..
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