Life This is where I'm suppose to dazzle you and make you curious enough to want to know me, right? I put my family first and now it's time for me to put myself somewhere closer to the top of the food chain that's all. I looking for someone who wants to go out on occasion, doesn't take themselves too seriously and likes to laugh when the time is right. I love hanging with my family, but if you're on this site, then you must want just a bit more too.

I have been self employed for 18 years, and raised 2 nice people for grown children, I have a few good friends, am close to my siblings & so on. I've lived in El Dorado county for 17 years but was raised in the bay area. I'm an easy going, low maintenance woman, usually in jeans & sweater. I lost my horse a couple years ago along with my daily mother routine. I've not made any plans for myself other than to be grateful for what have left and continue to work on what I have. It's been all work & little play for this gal way too long.

I had a good childhood, my dad was self employed & family helped out in those days, at least ours did. Being the oldest of 4 has it's perks & downfalls; my dad taught me to drive when I was young, how to throw a baseball like a boy, wrestle, and even taught me a little bit about flying small planes (bailed @ ground school, lol). My mom got me into ballet and taught us all about unconditional love, grandma taught me to love race horses. I played softball into my late 30's (no I wasn't good), had a fishing license & pole (kinda lucky at that), was on a bowling league (no I wasn't good) all that stuff & more, but that was decades ago.
I suppose it comes down to chemistry and things in common that bring people together. I don't play head games, life's too short and I've been in hibernation a long time. I've been a waitress, groomed race horses, and my last paying job was as an engineering secretary, 19 years ago.

If you want to know more please ask & thanks for getting this far (:

I don't consider the first meeting a date, talk over coffee & go from there I suppose.