Ladies, let me start by saying, if you are just looking for sex, pass me by. I know you ladies see my picture and think to yourself, what a big hunk of "man-meat". Well, I am here to tell you that I am more than a sex object. I have a mind and I'm not afraid to use it. I have been down that path before and have either the energy or the access to fluids that are required to sustain such an existance. Now that we have that out of the way... :)

I am looking to meet somebody that I enjoy spending time with. I am laid back and easy to get along with. I probably am set in my ways but if you have a better way, I am open. I like to tinker around the house but I do get out when the need or want arises. I am fun and can be quite the prankster. I enjoy outdoor activities and most things athletic.

I have 2 great kids. My son is 19 in college. I spend most Saturdays in the fall at his football games. Go Grizzlies. My daughter is 17, going on 23, and is a senior in high school. Daughter still lives at home and son on campus. Neither needs me as much now as they used to. I am coming to grips with that. I am sure that we we all be fine.

I'd love to meet somebody that is fun,has a sense of humor, is laid back and easy going. Somebody that works to live and not lives to work but can get things done when the time arises. I liked to have a motivational partner to work out with. I have been divorced for 3 years, so I am not rushing into anything. The last couple of years I just buckled down and tried to get on with my life.

What the hell do I know about it? I am 45 and was with the same person for 20 years. Now I am on a website trying to find somebody that I am interested in; that is interested in me. This apparently is no small task. I think that a first date can be almost anything. I have had first dates at the zoo. The interactive environment lends itself well to conversation and I think that is a plus. I've gone to parties. This works well if you aren't sure about your date and want to bring her personality out. There is always the dinner and a movie. The classics never go out of style. But, I think that we can do better than all of those things. Let's talk about it and decide on something together...