People keep asking me why I'm on a website like this. Well, the truth is, I have a strange growth on my left breast that gets really hairy and green in the summer and everyone is afraid to touch it. I also need someone to shave my back so you better get a good razor. lol If you don't think that was funny, you probably wouldn't get my sense of humor. Actually, I have an awkward work schedule, very little remaining unwed or unattached friends, and find it difficult to meet the right kind of person in a bar setting.

Who am I? I'm a fun-loving, adventurous, open-minded, passionate, free spirited, dork on a quest to develop lifelong friendships. If that person should happen to fall under the category as lover, even better, but they have to be my best friend. I would say that I am a fairly independent person, but I am also pretty affectionate. I prefer to take my sweet little time in relationships. I want to leave a stamp on this world that is unforgettable. I want to contribute to charities, to have my own business, and to live to inspire anyone I can. The best attribute about me, which more often than not is a double-edged sword, is my ability to see the best in people. Life is too short...carpe diem!

I've come to realize men tend to fall into one of 2 categories...kind sweet-hearted sensitive nice guy who will do ANYTHING for you and smother you to pieces (help--can't breathe!)..or passive aggressive complicated cold ***hole who seems to always need space. Every once in a while they are a nice hybrid mix, and thats what tickles my fancy. I need someone who can be my best friend but still make me see fireworks. Someone who is loyal, trustworthy, honest, and can communicate, but also knows when to give me my space or to put me in my place. Someone who is professional in their career, but knows when to let loose and get crazy, because trust me, I can get wild, but I am also the most loyal career motivated person you'll ever meet. I would love to find someone who is creative, imaginative, and can make every day mundane things seem lively. I miss the good old days of making commercials and skits just for the hell of it. Okay, so go ahead and wow me. Above all you have to make me laugh or you're back to the sea!

Oh ya.. check me out at my space bobbis world if you wanna know more. GO DUCKS! p.s. they added that serious member thing to my account for free..I'm not really THAT serious. lol

I've always said it doesn't matter what you're doing if you have great company. That said... let's do my laundry! :) No really, just getting to know someone briefly is best for the first date.. taking a walk, going for a drive, or grabbing a cup of COCOA:) Coffee spins me like a top!