I believe in God and and passionate about my relationship with Him. I'm easy going, intelligent, confident, honest, have an excellent sense of humor, always see the glass half full, family-oriented, can be very direct, but never cruel about it. I believe that the little things matter, and I don't suffer liars well, but my heart is a forgiving one. That being said, there is plenty to know about me, but I could never put it all here...besides if I were to put it all here, you would have no reason to get to know me. On that note let me continue by saying that I am a full-figured woman, so if you're looking for the "Barbie" you've stopped at the wrong place. Since I keep getting asked this question - I am Puerto Rican and Malaysian.

Please note: The following is what I desire in a mate (give or take a bit). Of course we must be friends before anything else. I believe in starting at the beginning.....

About my potential Mate: He loves God, he loves his children (if he has any - because I love my son dearly), he has love of family, he`s mature, emotionally and in age (late 30's - mid 40's - not written in stone, just a preference), but yet he maintains the little boy inside, he`s secure in who he is, jealousy is not an issue in his world, although, he protects what is his ferociously, he knows what he wants in love, family, life and career. He is passionate and he is romantic, he has EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. He takes care of himself physically, but he`s not a fanatic or he is! LOL....doesn`t really matter so long as he knows how to love. He`s not afraid to show when he`s vulnerable and he`s not afraid to ask for help when he needs it. He`s compassionate to those he loves and to those around him, he`s sensitive and humorous (meaning he can laugh at himself...a HUGE turn on!) he knows how much the little things matter. But most of all he's honest...because he understands just how easily a LIE can destroy the very best of things. He`s a MAN, a lover, a son, a father, a brother, and a best friend.

I would just like to add: If you're here looking perfection, you'll be sorely disappointed. I am by no means perfect, and don't pretend to be...I wouldn't even attempt it, since it doesn't exist....and I'm OK with that...but make no mistake...I am definitely worth knowing.

"The amount of time you pursue someone who doesn't want you is inversely proportional to the height of your self-esteem. As you grow to love and accept yourself more, you will find yourself much less interested in someone who is not"

Food for thought - After reading through many of the profiles here - one thing is clear, most men think most women are mentally unstable! LMAO - if that's the case then why search for a mate via this venue? Hmmmm...but women are the unstable ones???? Hysterical! FYI - many of us are very stable!

I JUST WANTED TO ADD....IF I PAY YOU A COMPLIMENT - THAT'S ALL IT IS - A COMPLIMENT - BE NICE AND SAY "THANK YOU" AND DON'T READ INTO IT. A COMPLIMENT DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE MY FLAVOR. LIKE YOU I HAVE MY PREFERENCES, BUT IT DOESN'T RENDER ME INCAPABLE OF BEING A PERSON AND PAYING YOU A COMPLIMENT.
Mina :*

I like to keep a first date simple...maybe meet for coffee and talk. When the environment is a relaxed one, then we can be relaxed too....no "representatives".... you know the "representative"? That's person you think your date wants you to be..LOL