I'm 29, from San Jose. Im a single dad. I have a 2 year old son who stays with me part time and is always #1 in my heart. My lil' man stays with me only part time so I'm hoping I can invest the rest of my time into meeting my "queen". No baby mama drama or nothing so forget all that. I've spent the last 2 years being a dad that I haven't had time for dating. Now that everything is well situated, I think I'm ready to see whats up. I live on my own, got a good job, I got it together. I'm responsible but I know how to have a good time. I'm just an honest guy trying to find a good girl. I'm well read, educated, but at the same time, I'm from East San Jose, so I gotta stay street smart too. Not ghetto, but hip on game yah know? I try to maintain a balanced life, knowing I gotta set a good example for my little man, but I'm still young, so I still got a lot of things to do. Life is too short not to make the most of it.

As far as this dating thing goes... I'm just looking to meet new friends and we'll see what happens from there. I've grown tired of the bar/club scene so I'm giving this a shot and we'll see what happens...

I'm a sucker for good atmosphere, good music, and intellectual conversation with some good company. Sportscenter gets a lot of play around my house, so if that's cool, major plus. Of course, the only way you can get to know me is by talking to me, so hit me up... look forward to hearing from you!

First date would include some kind of beverage, either coffee or drinks. Followed by my interrogation as to what kind of music you like. I can usually get a good feel for a person based on what's on their ipod. You up for it?