Looking for that lady with the bright smile, sparkle in her eyes, & love in her heart, but isn't every man? Open minded and enjoys a mixture of things to fill her free time. I am very open to enjoying all types of entertainment, but prefer doing new & challenging ventures with the lady in my life. Still work, but play more tennis than work. Not looking for tennis partner, but must understand my love for the game. Not a game player & make rapid decisions about relationships as don't want others to get hurt when could be avoided. Love life and am individual on the go all the time until "she" stops me. A care giver. I do not have "free" time as have elected to not have it. I make time for the opportunity and the time can be little or lot. I am not interested in a "pen" pal as have other things in my life that fill that time. Spent good deal of time working with charity organizations.

Firm believer in first contact should be the real you, with no camo of the real you. Lunch or coffee can tell you a great deal about a person, and especially casual meeting. Really want to see what you see if what you get. So lunch at a quite casual location or afternoon glass of wine at relaxing & quite location. The meeting can be for 30 minutes of 3 hours, just let it develop as it happens I believe the lady should pick the location and the man the tab.