Hi... Time for a little update on the profile. I have been back in Raleigh since 07. I have dated some but just have not been able to find the right connection. I have been back for 2 yrs now and looking to meet someone and see where things might lead. I have decided to go back to work for myself. I have gone back into the field of Landcape and Design which I love. I have a great group of friends which are mostly all married and have kids but I am also looking to making new ones. I am also looking forward to taking in all the new places that have popped up since I have been gone. I love to cook. I am 1/2 Italian and 1/2 Irish. I love the outdoors and anything that is fun. I am motivated and outgoing. I have alot to offer the right woman and am looking for the same in return. I am expressive and open with my feelings. I work out about 4-5 times a week and take good care of myself. Some times work gets busy and keeps me from going to the gym but I still stay active. I hope to find a person that can be friends and take the time to get to know each other and then go from there. There of course has to be chemistry and attraction. My hope is for a long term relationship and my best friend. Are you her...if so.....write me. I have a very creative side and like deep conversations that really bring out the best of both of us. I like to talk and get to know the person I am with. I am very out going but can be reserved at the same time. Since, I have been on Match.co and yahoo personal and now here ( boy this internet stuff can be a bit much). I have talked to some nice people. I am looking for more than just talk. I want to get to know the person but, don't want to just do it through e-mails. I want to meet and really get a good feel for them. My ad is real and the pics of me are real and up to date. I hope to find someone that I can meet and get to know and become friends with...Talk to you soon.
Well, Here we go.....As far as what I am looking for. She has to be funny,open,ergetic,and romantic. I am very romantic, love to cuddle and really like to make the person I'm with feel loved in many ways. I want someone that can be my best friend, grow old with together and someone that speaks her mind. I want some one that has goals and drive as for I do. I believe that a relationship is 100-100% and will not compromise. I want her to take care of herself and would think she would want the same. She doesn't have to be Miss Olympia but, inshape would be great. Must also have a little kid still in her. I love to have fun and dont really care what people think about it when i am doing it....just kind of a care free attitude with an understanding that life is short and you need to make the most of it but yet be responsible at the same time......is that possible...yes it is....lol.
Well, I hope to meet you soon and look forward to talking to someone. I have entered into the world of Sub-contracting and working for myself and it has really made this hard for me to meet or keep up with people. I am very focused on my new career and want to make it work and hope that in doing this I will be able to find someone that is willing to understand what I am tring to do and willing to be patient with me. I know this might be a big request but I am hoping that if things work out it will allow me to provide for my special someone and hopefully a family one day.

So...they want to know what we would do on our first date. Well, I guess it is different with every situation but just a casual meet and greet is always good. Maybe coffee or a drink and take the date as it comes. I enjoy a nice dinner so if that happens to be the first date then that is nice. I like a casual setting where we can talk and get to know each other where we don't have to scream across the table at each other to talk. If all goes well then we can always do something afterwards or even on a second date if I am lucky enough... :)