I am a very goal oriented gal - looking for a guy that has a good head on his shoulders and knows how to treat a woman- to prove to me that not all guys are the same. Looking for someone who can handle having a girl that can be one of the guys on friday night and all his on saturday.

I think i bring a lot to the table, a great mind and a great sense of humor. I can make a fun time out of just about any situation and don't come across too many people that don't enjoy my company. I spent most of my senior year of college at a job working in the nursery of my church and some of my greatest life lessons have come from the mouth's of 3-5 year olds and the amazing honesty they hold in their hearts; from the purity of life that has yet to be tainted. It is very inspiring and something i try to remember to live by in my day to day life.

I enjoy spending time with my family and friends- i believe they are the most important people in my life. I go out on the town now and then but i can be completely content to spend the night at home with someone special on the couch with movies and a bowl of popcorn. I like to spend a lazy afternoon at the park when its nice or if its cold...in a nice quiet coffee shop with a friend. I also enjoy going to the movies and curling up with a good book now and then. I also enjoy time spent outdoors; my family does a lot of camping/water sports in the summer and i just love it.

I am a strong faithed lutheran girl-i may not be perfect, i make mistakes-that's what i do. i think without speaking, act without knowing and sometimes party too hard but I'm a great lover and amazing friend and God knows i mean well.

Basically to sum it all up in a quote i found once and just loved: "I am the girl your ex girlfriend will hate, the girl your mom will love, and the girl you will never forget."

To me, a first date isn't necessarily what you do, it's how you connect. Of course it's important to have fun. I just think that having a particular first date in mind would only lead to being disappointed. The first date always depends on the two personalities coming together and what each person enjoys doing; finding a common ground. The only essential part is feeling comfortable and enjoying yourself.