HERE ARE A FEW THOUGHTS THAT MAY HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT MAKES ME TICK :


( The Choices we make dictate the life we lead. )

( Enjoy each day and every moment to the fullest and to the best of your ability, while also understanding that NOT each day will be a joyful one, this helps us enjoy, embrace and appreciate the good times and moments that much more. )

( EVERYTHING in life Happens or doesn't happen for a reason, though at times, we have no idea what those reasons are, often, the answers lay further down our path. )

( I'm a firm believer that our soul mate & best friend really does exist, but looking and searching for that person can cloud your judgment from the things that we normally would never overlook, the red flags if you will. I feel you should let time and circumstance dictate the path you travel. Until then.. live, learn and enjoy life to the fullest. )

I tend to travel a different road than most - I choose to be brutally honest - I tell it the way it is - I call it the way I see it.

At times, there are those that may feel brutal honesty is a tad harsh, I however choose to play devils advocate, to me, it is better to be a tad harsh than a lying sack of doo-doo. NO, being a tad harsh does not translate in being mean or hurtful, it just means I will not accept or tolerate ANY head games or BS. It is NOT what you say, rather, how you say it. Presentation and Perception, often, is everything.



***** WHAT INTERESTS ME IN A PERSON *****


Of course, physical attraction is the first thing that makes a persons head turn, we are after all, only human, but at the same time, beauty fades very quickly when and if there is nothing beyond that.

What catches my attention first and foremost is a person who has a certain depth in who they are. A person who can stimulate me mentally and emotionally.

Can you hold a deep, thought provoking conversation ?

Are you secure enough in who you are to just be yourself ?

Are you secure enough to show your weaknesses, your faults, the things about you that are not the most appealing, but at the same time, are a part of who you are and what you're all about ?

These are the things that stand out the most when I first meet someone, so be prepared to come with your best shot !!!


***** A FEW FINAL THOUGHTS *****


( No man, for any considerable time, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which may be true ... by Nathaniel Hawthorne )

( Success is not measured by the position one has reached in life ... Rather by the obstacles overcome while trying to succeed ... by Booker T. Washington )

( To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be ... by Anna Louise Strong )

( The wise person acts without effort and teaches by quiet example. He accepts things as they come, creates without possessing, nourishes without demanding, accomplishes without taking credit. Because he constantly forgets himself, he is never forgotten )

( The rewards for those who persevere far exceed the pain that must precede the victory ... by Ted Engstrom )

( Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value ... by Albert Einstein )

( You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit & sake of the one you love ... by Henry Drummond )

( Nothing so conclusively proves a man's ability to lead others as what he does from day to day to lead himself ... by Thomas J. Watson )

( The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy ... by Martin Luther King Jr. )

( It is true that we shall not be able to reach perfection, but in our struggle toward it we shall strengthen our character & give stability to our ideas, so that, while ever advancing calmly in the same direction, we shall be rendered capable of applying the faculties with which we have been gifted to the best possible account ... by Confucius )


LAST BUT NOT LEAST !!!!!


I consider myself to be a very secure and confident person, so I would like to state from the get-go that I view myself to be nothing short of the " GREEK GOD, ZEUS " ... WE'RE LIKE IDENTICAL TWINS ... with ONLY a few IRRELEVANT differences ... aside from LACKING his LOOKS, HOUSES, CARS, WOMEN, MONEY AND FAME, YOU CANNOT TELL US APART.

With that, I leave you with, " live, love, learn and enjoy the journey " !!!

I'm not into quantity and numbers, I'm not here to collect friends or friends with benefits ... I am more into quality and substance ... ( IT ONLY TAKES ONE, THE RIGHT ONE ) ... I dont find being added to so many " FAVORITES " LISTS as some honor or an ego boost, dont need it nor care for it, I especially enjoy those who add me as a favorite and at the same time, never take a moment to send a message, what's wrong with this picture ? ... dont waste your time adding me, the entire list is cleaned out and deleted REGULARLY ... care to know more about me or just wanna chat, very simple, message me !!!