This site is great for window shopping and reading material.... I check in from time to time to just see if I am the only one left in the world sitting alone...but I see we are all still here....Now ~ I admit I am just here ~ sitting on the dock only willing to dip my tippy toes in one at a time....Overly cautious, bleeding heart, and the fact that I can't swim - - keeps me at bay...
Men ask why I am still here, why haven't I found a date.....I am just taking my time and respond more to sincere letters..I am not into meeting on spur of the moment.. I like to talk to someone and actually have some vital info... like your name.... before meeting..I think a few conversations can allow you to see if you click mentally and personality wise..
and if a meeting of the minds is on the agenda.. than I think that everyone feels more relaxed.. I am a sincere and serious person that does like to have fun, starting with great conversations... whether serious or silliness.......

i would be happy meeting for a cup of coffee !! i can have fun anywhere if with the right person..