Hey, and thanks for looking, well let me see where to start, its always hard to describe yourself on things like this as it always sounds like a job interview, I suppose i just want the same as most people on here (well the normal ones anyway) just looking for that someone special i guess who i can spend some time with and hopefully moves into something more serious over time, I work hard and when the opportunity comes play even harder, Its got to the point in my life now where i dont want to settle for second best as it hasnt got me very far so I thought as alot of my friends seem to be doing pretty well from sites like these i thought i would give it a try, im a very honest, genuine, loving, independant guy who over time will have alot of love and respect to give someone been single for a while due to being hurt really bad in the past but i figured its about time to put the past behind me and start aiming for the future. I also have a very good sense of humour and enjoy making people happy, smile & laugh but thats for you to find out so with that i hope to hear from some of you if you wish to know more & thanks for taking the time to read this far xxxx

Spur of the moment, depends on the interests of the other person, something cool and calm as first dates can always be a little awkward and on edge so something to ease into nicely and go from there.