I know, I know, you've received dozens of emails from men, talked to them on the phone, even met a few but came away discouraged that they have not met your expectations. Perhaps you have even given up your 'search' at times because it becomes so frustrating? I know that I have gone thru this process as well but I am not giving up, it takes a lot of time and effort. Life passes by so quickly, don't you want someone to share it with?

When we were younger it seems that we did not know exactly what we wanted in a partner and therefore were not quite so picky. Now that we are older we know what we want and will not compromise? My belief is that we need to be more open to the possibilities that are out there.......are you?

I am just a regular guy looking to make a connection... honesty, integrity and authenticity are high priorities........if you are a player or just looking for variety, I am not interested. But if you have a genuine desire to share your life with someone who will give 100% and always be there for you, then perhaps I am the one? My theory is that if I give you what you want then you will reciprocate, relationships are about giving rather than receiving.

I am looking for someone who is active, no couch potatoes or professional shoppers. I spend a lot of time keeeping my self in shape and would expect the same although I don't expect anyone to look they way they did 20 years ago!

Anyhow, if you want to grab a coffee [money back guarantee] and see what possibilities there are in life......drop a line.

I think it is very important to do something fun and memorable on a first date....I am kind of old fashioned in many ways.