Well let's see...I pretty much think this is gonna be a waste of time because it seems that what every woman says they're looking for they really don't mean it at all

but regardless my name chris, I live in nw ga in a very small town, I enjoys all types of things but you can see my profile to get an idea on some of those

I'm looking for someone who is actually real...cause all I seem to meet are girls who say they want a real man, someone mature who treats them good..yet once I talk and get to know them, they actually aren't looking for anything like that..they're looking for nice cars,nice house,washboard abs,someone who will revolve their whole life around them...I am none of those..I have my own car, but it isnt the greatest..I live in an apt..that isnt the greatest...i dont have a 6 pack but im not fat by no means...im not a model..or anything close to it, and i work 5 and 6 days every week so my life cant just stop for someone...but I also treat a girl with respect,am very honest,bust my tail to make something work...but all It gets is taken advantage of...

Ok this is NOT my writing, I found this on a site and it sums up 95% of girls I come into contact with... so NO I am not dogging out every female on here or everywhere
What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were ****ing treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, "What happened to all the nice guys?"

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive "just-a-" friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an ******* than he ever wanted to be.