I'm just gonna go ahead and be brutally honest here and see what happens, k? I'm going to be specific to a degree that some people might find offensive or unrealistic but it's what I want so here it goes...

I want to be with one woman for the rest of my life. I've had long relationships and they are far better and more fulfilling than the frivolous ones. There's really no competition between the two. Long term is a million times better and I'm in for it if you are. I'm kind of a bold guy most often but can be humbled. I don't like being wrong but I'll admit it when I am. I have lofty dreams and have lived five lives inside this one already by following my heart and gut instincts. I intend to continue to live an extraordinary life. I love poetry and romance. If something about you compels me I will make an absolute ass of myself if necessary to romance you.

Now, onto the risky part...about you:

Mentally, you'd better be really smart. I'm not trying to be a snob about it, but I'm a damn smart guy and I need a damn smart girl. You girls who know you aren't so smart are wonderful in many, many ways, but I'm looking for a really smart girl and I just don't have the patience to do the thinking for two people. Been there, done that, never will again.

Now, I don't mean booksmart necessarily although that's respectable. Real intelligence doesn't correlate directly with how high your test scores have been. Have you got a lust for knowledge? Can you speak more than one language? Are you often misunderstood because your ideas are too complicated? That's what I'm talking about. Artists, scientists, world travellers, agnostics, questioners, detectives, I want your brains near mine. If you're funny that's a very good sign that we'll get along. I've got an active (nearly over-active) sense of humor and you should too.

Physicality supersedes everything romantically. That may sound shallow but it's not, just honest. If you aren't physically attractive to me I can't get physically turned on and I'm looking for someone physically attractive. If from first site there's no possibility for physical attraction it'll never work. We may end up great friends but that's as far as it will ever be able to go. A lot of girls seem to be able to be with a guy they don't find physically attractive but I can't be with an unattractive girl physically. Sorry! it's not for not trying! I had a girlfriend once whose personality I thought would be enough but at the end of the day it didn't work and part of it had to do with the fact that I didn't find her attractive. It's better to not go down that road with those who aren't attractive. That's the nicest way for me to say that anyone with weight problems should probably not bother messaging me looking for love. Nothing against you ladies, I just don't want to have sex with you, and the woman of my dreams- I want to have sex with her. I'm not saying that I don't like a curvy girl- some girls built just right can be unbelievably sexy. I'm talking about sloppy and saggy. I can't do that. Yikes

To be specific about what I'm looking for physically, I'm a a sucker for cat eyes and nice big lips. I just can't resist. Also, a nice ass will solve a lot of problems. I guess you'd call me an ass man. It's kind of a deal-breaker, actually. You can be pretty thin up top but the nice ass thing is a must.

Sexually there are definitely some things that I should draw the line about. Oral is a must have. I give enthusiastically and you'd better too. I also love giving nice little bites on ears and necks and where ever else I please, so if you don't like that let's not bother wasting each other's time. As a matter of fact I can be a little rough in general. Not terribly rough but I might give you a little scare just to excite you. This isn't to say I'm not gentle- I certainly am when I want to be, but I like having a bit of variety and sometimes you just feel the animal in you.

I think that's it...tryin to think if I left anything out here...I don't think so but Oh!

Age- If you're over forty don't even think about it. If I had a nickle for every 40+ year old woman i've met on here trying to live out her pool-boy fantasies with me, well, I don't know if I'd be a millionaire but i'd have a lot of friggin nickles. Age isn't such a big deal as long as you feel young to yourself and you feel young to me.

Okay. Let the hate mail begin!

Assuming you've read to here, I guess I don't care at all what our first date is. I've met a lot of women online and usually just use the first date as a feeling out period unless there's instant chemistry. Start with a drink and if we keep having fun then I'll get you home before sunrise.