The "About Me" Section: Divorced, father of 4 awesome kids ranging in age from 10yrs to 20yrs, very active in my church, I am a constant source of mirth for my friends, very imaginative, extremely creative, a computer engineer who loves video games and cartoons, can be a big silly kid and knows that the greatest joys in this life come from the simplest of love-filled moments!
(NARF!) You know that "Do you want children?" question: there should be a tab for "Does not want to SIRE more children, but is cool with their kids and yours." I mean, come on, have you seen the cool things kids can do these days? I'm just as comfortable playing video games with my kids (and their friends) as I am hanging out with my own adult friends. I had a sweet lady/friend on here ask me if my "Does not want children" meant I did not want someone who has kids already: whether or not you have kids has little bearing on what I like. I know that kids are going to grow up and leave (if you did your job right) and it will still be just the two of us. That lady I chose to live out my days with is the one I'll have to relate to. Yes, the kids too, but I don't intend to be sharing a bed with them.
The List: *I'm a hopeless romantic
*I'm an accomplished cook
*love dogs and cats equally
*can't stand fake, white-washed, or spin
*I love it when ladies speak their mind
*I'm not telepathic and guessing gets old fast (that was a hint...)
*I know how to show my feelings and do so honestly
*I want the same from her
*drama is a fact of life and everyone has it, it's just in different forms
*I believe in talking it through no matter the topic ... politics, religion, current events, interpersonal relations, whatever. I'm not a debater... I can like you and be adult enough to treat you with respect even if we can't completely agree.
*I can't dance worth a lick but I'm silly enough to get out and try so long as she'll do it with me
*I'm pretty shy till I'm comfortable in my surroundings and who I'm with
*then I tend to be silly, flirty, goofy, and playful
*I believe in treating others the way you would want to be treated
*I still open doors for ladies
*I still believe is saying "yes, ma'am" and "no, ma'am"
*I still believe in the potential goodness of folks.
(they just need to be reminded sometimes)
= = = = = = = = = = = =I'm not looking for a booty call.
--- I'm looking for my best friend.
I'm not looking for a one night stand.
--- I'm looking for one who'll stand with me forever.
I'm not looking for a sleepover.
--- I'm looking for the Sleeping Beauty.
I'm not looking for games and drama.
--- I'm looking for a love that outlasts time.
I'm not looking for sex.
--- I'm looking for the one I can call my sexy lady.
I'm not looking for a casual lover.
--- I'm looking for true love.
And I'll know her when I see her.
= = = = = = = = = = = =Music: I'm pretty open and listen to quite a lot of types, just so long as it's not vulgar or monotone. You never know what I'll be listening to.
One last "about me" that friends and family insisted on: I have never been described as HOT but I have often been called handsome. I have never been a chiseled feature but that doesn't mean I'm not muscular. My friend Tanya described me like this: "Imagine a bear - cuddly, warm, and wonderful to hold... till he's mad. Then he'll rip your arm off like a wookie." I think that's a fair assessment.
= = = = = = = = = = = = I MAY NOT BE WHAT YOU EXPECTED, BUT I CAN STILL ROCK YOUR WORLD. 
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