I am a 21 year old who is tired of the games that jerks like to play. If I take the time to flirt with you, it's because I have some sort of interest in you - not because I'm playing a game. If you're someone I think may be worth my time, I will find ways to show you how much I appreciate you.

That said, I'm a bit of a homebody but I can enjoy an evening out with a few close friends. I get tense and nervous in large groups, mostly due to my frustration with disorganized groups. I prefer quiet, intimate settings where we can enjoy a drink and a good conversation over large parties, although they can be fun at the right times.

I go to Syracuse University for Stage Management, however I'm taking this year off while my mom is treated for cancer - she still has radiation to go through, which is why a semester turned into a year. While home, I've been learning more about cake decorating and design, which will hopefully be useful in my dream career of event planning and cake design. I'm also working as an after-school head counselor (which basically means that I'm in charge in whatever room I'm in and that I'm responsible if an emergency should arise) with an amazing bunch of kids. It doesn't pay much, but I love my job, and I love kids. They truly do say some of the strangest and most entertaining things. Maybe I ought to be a teacher.

I like to be active when I can, and that ranges anywhere from going to the gym to playing games with the kids at work/camp, to frisbee or a pickup football game with friends. I've been called adventurous by friends, and I'd love to have someone to bring along on those adventures.

I'd love to play a game of catch or a light-hearted game of frisbee with friends, followed by conversation over coffee at a quiet and cozy coffee shop or familiar diner.