honesty. that is #1 to me, be upfront as to what you want and dont want out of life and or a relationship. im a very ambitious person,just completed school and started a new career in the medical field. I am looking for someone who also doesnt settle and wants the best for themselves. my #1 priority are my kids. 2 teens and altho self sufficient, they require a lot of my mental focus! lol. prefer someone who can relate to the kid factor by being a dad themselves. my family and friends are very important to me and to be with me, u must also enjoy that part of my life. im not 36, im 39..but enjoying life like i never have before and plan to continue!

Im looking for someone that loves to have fun, but sincere about what they want out of a relationship. Do have hope to find the love of my life one day, if its meant to be..it will be.. but i wont settle just not to be alone. My life is very fullfilled with the family and friends i have, but i do have room for that special someone!

love to sit outside and enjoy a live band and a glass of wine! will also settle for a starbucks, my 2nd favorite beverage!