I am trying here ladies! :-) I will admit I am a bit frustrated because I do not fully understand what you are looking for. Or, at the least say you are looking for qualities in a man on your profile but you pass up contact from a man who likes to think we could have possibilities. You girls (women if you must) are great for the most part but may be overlooking something that could be real good for you because a profile doesn't say something exactly perfect. Some men could say what you want to hear only for their true intentions to come out later. Some of us are only be honest about who they are and what they seek to be happy for the remainder of there life. Now that is honesty! :)

I am a hard working, loyal and loving man. I like giving attention as much as getting it. I have a good career and happy with life overall. I mean come on, life is a rollercoaster, you just have to get up each day thinking this day will be better than the last. Life to me should be shared and not keep life's successes to one's self. That includes being a part of my son's life and successes as well.

So, is it too much to ask for taking a chance and either email or reply? I am real and VERY divorced unlike alot of posers on here. I am looking for a serious friendship and hopefully it will turn into more. Therefore, you can go for pretenders or try me. I am as real and honest as it gets. I promise!

I believe a simple out of the way quite place where two people can get to know each other. Then plan the rest as the evening/day progresses.