I am striving to be a Proverbs 31 woman. I am not into drama. I have high standards and demands because I know what a gem I am... now. I made some mistakes in the past but I am ready for love ulitmately like Indie.Arie says in her song. However, I want a friend. Someone to remind me how beautiful and intellectual and spiritual I am when I forget. I love to smile and laugh and try new things. I am brutally honest and straightforward, some people don't like that. I can some on too strong or seem shy, depends on the day. I care about a lot of things like the lack of water resources in Africa and domestic violence. I don't take things personal. I can hold an intelligent conversation, but I don't like a whole lot of talking, show me the money! lol Nah just sayin I enjoy solitude and peace. Opinions don't bother me, everyone is entitled to one, besides, facts and figures are important,opinions may be taken into consideration,but ultimately only the truth matters.

My favorite artists are Mary Mary, Indie.Arie, Floetry, Natasha Bedingfield, Fergie, Black Eyed Peas, Fred Hammond, Luther Vandross, The Temptations, and Whitney Houston, to name a few. I was on here in the past but I met a lot of jerks and got off but I decided to give it another try and see what happens. Don't holla at me if you think I'm naive or a woman that you can manipulate. I am beautiful, inside and out. NOT conceited, confident. I am a gem. If I have to convince you, keep it moving. I know that I am a woman who knows how to be down for her man. If you get to know me, you might fall in love so beware. This is why I am very particular. I am by no means perfect, but I am a goal oriented, ambitious woman with a calling on her life who has no time to waste. I would like to be pursued by my Adam, but if that never happens it's all good. In the meantime, I am taking care of me and pursuiing Kingdom work, while working on my business plan, my nonprofit, writing my book,and building my house (physically and mentally). Thanks... God Bless! I like reading about people on here so I come on in my spare time but if you don't hear back from me email me at smile4u2injoy@yahoo.com.

Turn offs, if you don't know the difference between there and their, know and no, your and you're, etc. Men who call me "cute" or "sexy". I may be both, but I just don't like it. Ask me why. Don't call me "shorty" or "ma", I'm neither. Don't ask me to have sex with you.

I would love to just have the man take the lead. If I am feeling him and we are vibing, it won't matter where we go or what we do because I will enjoy being in his company/presence. I do like walks at the beach/park, movies, bookstores/library or mall, etc. Not into the clubbing scene. Although I do enjoy an occassional lounge, because I like art/ spoken word/poetry, singing, jazz, etc.