For much too long I have been afraid of putting myself out there. I learned the other day that sometimes you have to stop being so god d*mn nice sometimes, and go after what you want. I am not saying that I want to use people, I am saying that if I feel like I feel a connection with a woman, I am going to say something. I am not going to wait until "the time is perfect", I am just going to say what I feel at that time and place. I have no clue how this change is going to work out for me, but I need to switch something up.

What I live for is a good conversation that has lots of laughter. When dating someone, I want someone who challenges me to be a better person, someone that compliments me as a person. I want to meet people who are motivated. Ones that are not only trying to enjoy the present, but planning for the future.

What I would love to do on a first date is go to a game at New Yankee Stadium. But that is a bad idea. Nothing would be more uncomfortable than a 2 hour car ride home with someone that you really couldn't stand. How about we go somewhere and have a drink or two? If we feel like we can sit down and have dinner without wanting to cut the other one with the steak knives, then lets do it. Maybe after that we can go on a walk on the beach, at a park, or your favorite gang's neighborhood. Lets just find out if we even have a spark of chemistry before we get all serious talking date.