Physically I'm tall, dark and oddly enough, very often described as very handsome.

I enjoy life to the absolute fullest! I'm very sports oriented. Just playing them though, I'm not so much into watching sports on TV unless maybe for playoff time. I just enjoy being very active. Sports is a great way to have fun and the side effects of most are that they keep you in shape. I'm not much of a couch potato but certainly enjoy a quite night home with a good movie.

I've only recently realized that my relationships haven't gone very far because they seem to be too focused on physical connections. I seem to not gain enough of a friendship bond. You certainly have to have a physical attraction but I want to find someone that I have a major connection with and that's going to be one of two things right now...A music connection. I'm looking for a girl who plays an instrument, sings or at least has a strong desire to learn. That is such a mental turn on for me and a huge common interest I'd like to share.

The other is being very sports oriented. I play an endless amount of sports and would like someone who wants to go out and do the same. Certainly not every one. I do feel partners should have things they do apart and with others. Most will agree that most couples don't need to spend every waking moment together.

I'm on here mostly to be able to say that "I've left no stone unturned". You never know where you will finally meet "THE ONE" but I am pretty sure at this point that I'm not going to find her on here. This seems to be a breeding ground for the cliche' "I want her, she wants him, and he wants somebody else". From girls I have talked with on here there seems to be a lot of bad apples(weirdos) out there in personals land which makes it tough on the normal people but I guess sometimes people are on here because they can't function in a normal social setting then maybe there is a problem. I just want to say that I truly am 100% normal and if i write to you it's not a copy and pasted letter which would be 1 of 20 or more. I have always been able to look at a female and get a good sense of at least physical attraction, that is providing the picture is accurate. That seems to be a huge problem on here though. Meeting someone in person...I've yet to be wrong! Sure I haven't found "Mrs Right" but when i pursue a girl I am always attracted to them the way I expected I would be after we start dating.

EVERYTHING I do I give 100 percent effort. I hate dating because even when I'm not in love I still treat that girl like I would anyone and that usually has a sad ending. I live by KARMA. "You get what you give". It doesn't matter who you are, I always treat everyone like I would want to be treated. Common sense? One would think so.

Cocktails or Dinner, somewhere to sit and chat to get a feel for compatibility.