I'm a confident classy single mother of 2. I'm down to earth, quick witted and sarcastic so put your "A" game on cause you'll need it. I think you know when a good relationship is forming when it just seems to flow together and just work.

My friends would tell you that i'm honest, upfront and direct. I am the 11th child of 12 I have 8 brothers and 3 sisters. I enjoy going out and meeting up with friends for a few drinks good laughs and dancing or just hanging out. I value great conversation and a good sense of humor. I would like to meet someone who is grounded, down to earth, calm and easy going who has their act together and knows what they want. I'm shy at first but warm up after getting to know the person. I can be hard to read at times but that is just part of who I am and like the saying goes (never assume) just ask. I'm pretty selective about who I date, I've never really been a serial dater, I know what i'm looking for and I'll know it when I find It hopefully the feeling will be mutual.

I don't mind spending time alone I think it's good for the soul and gives you time to regroup and reflect on anything you may be doubting or questioning within yourself which makes things a lot easier than reacting at that moment. I have great friends who I know would be there for me if ever I needed them and they know they can trust me to be there for them. Please don't send me any photos with your shirt off, you wouldn't go to a job interview without a shirt, so think of this as an interview, if anything it will just make me move on past your profile. I'm looking for a good guy who wants to take the time and get to know me. I do think looks are somewhat important but in the end It's what's on the inside that counts.

I have never been married (no there's nothing wrong with me)lol I'm just waiting for that 1 great guy to come along I'm unwilling to settle I'd rather be alone then to be with someone that I'm not happy with. Life is too short just because you don't want to be alone for the rest of your life. I believe trust and a mutual respect for one another is very important in any relationship if you even lack one of those then you shouldn't be in it.

If your into lying and playing games then I'm not for you. I want someone who can be honest with me and with themselves.