Anyone willing to have an Irish woman as a partner and still go on to lead a normal and productive life?

I am straight-up; nothing to read between the lines. No tricks. No fiction. Just true to life.
I am a bit of both:

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Born and raised in Northern Ireland, I'm a full-figured, curvaceous, green eyed, fair skinned Irish lass with an Irish lilt to boot and a proud mum of two, handsome grown sons; 24 and 29, who've both moved on with their own lives. Oh, I am also the VERY proud grandmother to a wondrous, little baby girl!! ME? A grandmother? EGADS! lol
Hair colour: auburn. ( That wasn't available in the drop-down box )
Harmony and balance are my keynotes. I instinctively understand the need to accommodate other peoples' interests and desires, and I am always fair and willing to meet the other person half way.
Tactful, diplomatic, and with considerable social awareness, I do all I can to avoid unhealthy conflict and discord. I love to share and doing things together. I am however, comfortable with being alone by myself, too. I enjoy my quiet times. I truly love simplicity in my life, even my own home/how I dress, etc., reflects this: simple, clean lines, tailored looks.
I invest a great deal of my energy in personal love and I'm very idealistic and romantic about relationships. I believe I make a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and I so enjoy the traditional symbols of love courtship, simplicity, flowers, etc. Relationships are like an art; one that requires time, great attention, gentleness and creative effort.
Fairness and equality, both in my personal life and in the world, are extremely important.
I want to meet a guy who is healthy emotionally; spiritually and physically, has self confidence, integrity and a sense of humour, a deep respect for others, independence and a passion for life itself. As said, a
SPARK to my dynamite! Are you he?
There are no mistakes...only lessons to be learned.
Please enclose a photo ( of your face! ) within your message if there isn't one on your profile. You can see with whom you chat, so I wish to also!
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be married