I'm 38 , have two great kids, widowed for 4 years now. I am VERY careful about the people that I allow to be around me for obvious reasons. Besides working part time- going to school and chasing after my kids , I like spending time out with other adults; I tend to get nervous right off the bat, but then if I am comfortable I settle down fast. I like to read, take walks, I love the summer and anything outdoors. There are lots of things I would like to try and places I would like to see , but dont get alot of chances these days.

First dates are tough; I guess dinner and a walk something along those lines. If I'm really comfortable with the person I am out with I could sit and talk forever.