I am a non-smoker, non-drinker, non-drug user in search of the same. Spirituality, (not to be confused with religion) is my foundation so finding someone like-minded is imperative. The majority of my "spare time" is spent attending spiritual events (meditation groups, drumming circles, movies etc) or completing my natural health training. It would be wonderful to have someone to share these with.
I treasure the simple things in life, the stuff that money can't buy. I'm interested in a person's inner qualities, not what they do for a living, what they have, or the numbers in their bank account. I'm down-to-earth, easy-going, non-judgmental, low-maintenance, and non-materialistic. I'm honest, genuine, and sincere, and consider lying, head games, and manipulation pointless. I'm a one-man woman. I have a great sense of humour and love to laugh and joke around. I take pride in my appearance but am not focused on my looks. I like to think of it as shell and the nut is on the inside.
I'm looking for someone to grow with, and a relationship that brings out the best in both of us by providing mutual support and encouragement. Physical attraction is important, but not as important as the things that you can't see. I really appreciate a man with a good sense of humour, a positive attitude, similar values and some of my interests, particularly spirituality.
I'm very independent and self-reliant. I am "happily divorced" and within a few years of parental retirement from active duty. As I have spent over half of my entire life as a parent I would prefer to meet a man with children over 18, older teenagers, or without children.
My interests are varied and diverse with spirituality (not to be confused with religion) and country music at the top of the list. I'm a Reiki Master and am working on certification in other natural health modalities.
It seems that a lot of the men here have motorcycles, probably enough to warrant a site name change to "Plenty of Motorcycles." It is wonderful that they have found their passion but since it is not a shared interest we are better suited for someone else.
Namaste
I understand and respect everyone's meeting preferences. I hope that you will understand and respect mine as well. I am looking for quality not quantity. I prefer to get to know people online over time prior to meeting. I've met some of my best friends online over the years and have found that this works the best for me. I'm not into serial meetings so if you're looking for "chemistry" or "sparks" at a coffee/drink meeting, I'm not your best choice. I've found that coffee/drink meetings often resemble an interview/interrogation. Have you ever witnessed/accidently overheard a coffee meeting/interrogation? I have and I'd prefer not to be on the other end of that situation! I find that an activity takes the pressure off of concentrating on the conversation. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, expensive, or time-consuming. It's a lot easier to get to know someone if you're doing something fun and active. It can be as simple as a walk. If it doesn't go well we can tell each other to take a hike.

j/k