I'm a very busy professional, so I like to make my "spare" time count. The type of attributes I look for are sophistication, intelligence and elegance, independance, confidence balanced with humility (which is not the same thing as humiliation), but can also be comfortable in jeans, hair tied back and no makeup. While I also look for phyiscal attraction, integrity is the most important characteristic she should have.

I like to go to an independent restaurant or lounge that isn't crowded or too noisy so that we can try savory new foods and enjoy some conversation so that I can "get to know her". There's a lot she can tell me beyond what she says.