Hi! I'm hoping to find my best guy friend here. Not into drama or games, not into hooking up,or NSA crap, there are other sites for that. I'm looking simply to find my best friend, fall in love and eventually raise a happy family together. If this has scared you off, that's okay... I'm looking for the guy that this doesn't scare off. I normally wouldn't be upfront regarding wanting the family etc. Let's be clear, I don't expect that we are doing this right away...there is that whole chatting, meeting, falling in love part first.

I just turned 35 so I think it's about time I think about getting serious about my search, but by no means feel like I have to rush into anything. I'm looking for a love that will last 50 years. If your older than ...ehhh last 35-40 years?;)
No worries, I'm not looking for a "Baby Daddy". I would have had kids by now if that was the case. I'm looking for someone to share, enjoy and build a life with.

I have a house, a car and a dog. A real dog, lab mutt. Not a dress up yippy yappy dog. I am also working on my Masters in Education. It will allow me to continue working with kids, while leaving enough time to enjoy life and my own family in the summers, weekends and holidays.

I don't plan on living in this area forever, unless I found love here and my guy really didn't want to leave. I have always been drawn to New England and the Ocean. There are def. parts of the Hudson Valley I love though. Mass, Maine, RI seem to call to me.

I've driven cross county and lived in a tent by myself, in the desert of Arizona for 3 months while I worked at a Renaissance faire. I would enjoy going on a cross country trip again sometime. However the trip did prove I'm an east coast girl. I would also like to check out Nova Scotia.
I've been to Ireland, and it's one of my greatest loves, I def. want to go back.

I like doors opened for me and being treated like a lady, but I will also at some point challenge you to arm wrestle. I enjoyed playing Rugby, but don't like when I am on the receiving end of the 'hurty' part.

I know my way around the business end of many tools, so I can usually fix whatver it is myself, but I'm getting tired of that, so it would be nice if you could do it ;)


Random interests include: Playing Tennis, I'm a big girl but for some reason can fly around a court...
Renaissance faires, but I'm not a dork about it.
Travel and history ... New England mostly and colonial history.
I love all things Irish... but still can not finish a pint of Guinness, I'd prefer a sip of yours.
I like the beach, not just sitting there and tanning, I will bring a body board...and I might not share it.

I have a wicked sense of humor,and it's probably what I am most known for. This profile isn't a very good demonstration of that. Mostly cause I feed off of friends.
I am pretty laid back, but I can have the Irish temper (rarely) luckily I also have the Italian passion (more likely occurance). I understand that you need time with your friends, I need time with mine as well. I want to be in a long term/forever relationship, not stranded on a deserted island together.

I like being thoughtful, romantic and hope you do as well.

I like thunderstorms and snowstorms...if I am not driving in them.

I'm pretty modern, but I long for some old fashioned values and simple living. We've made the world too crazy. Let's relax and be happy.

Let's talk about sex for a moment. Most likely now some shmuck will take this as an invite to email me and mention what they want to do to me...etc... But seriously if we are going to be together, I want to be clear...and you can print this out and wave it in my face if it ever gets to that. I LOVE sex...monogomous, in a relationship sex, but still LOVE sex. Sometimes romantic passionate love making...sometimes wild, uninhibited F***ing. Bedroom around the house,in the car, outside etc... I normally wouldn't mention this in a profile, but I have heard of so many guy friends stuck in a marriage with a wife that falls asleep at 8 pm and is never in the mood. That would NOT be me. I can't forsee it ever would be. I need someone with the same sexual libido. Even a higher one would be nice. Anyway...



I am not the type to try and change anyone. My goal is to add to your life and for you to add to my life. By now we are both at least in our 30's and a bit stuck in our own routine. Hopefully we have enough similiar interests that it will be an easy transition ;). Let's just have fun together. I like to keep things interesting... and always thinking up ideas to keep a smile on my guy's face.


Regarding music, cause apparently that's a big thing on this sites.... various...DMB, NIN, Loreena Mckennitt, Pink, Amy Lee, Type O Negative,Sting, Drop Kick Murphys,Regina Spektor, Five for Fighting...

Movies...Boondock Saints, Braveheart, Shakespeare in Love, Princess Bride, Pete's Dragon, Willy Wonka (old school)


About the BBW part. Yeah, I'm a big girl. I hate that term BBW but wanted to pick the right body "classification" so there are no surprises. However, when I think of BBW , I think of ladies with cankles, big crispy hair, the wrong shade of red lipstick , and long nails with tropical inspired nail art laid out over a couch.
That would NOT be me. I like being active and we can go to the gym...hiking whatever... It would be nice to be more active with someone... I'm pretty cute for a chubby chick...

Well of course I'm not going to say something like candle lit dinner or walk on the beach or cozying up by the fireplace... jeez the pressure. Reality : the first date would probably be talking over dinner, maybe to a pub perhaps. The first date is always simple. Date three is where things are more comfortable.