Looking (like all of us) for someone for mutually beneficial relationship. All relationships need work and I do not believe in soulmates....I do believe that if you meet the right person there is a lot less work than with the wrong person :)
photo is over 2 years old. i weigh 20 pounds less now.

Personally I think a 1st date should be either lunch or dinner. How much coffee can you drink at Starbucks? :) Obviously both know within 5 minutes if theres going to be a 2nd date but whats one meal together? :)