where to start? i am a 30 year old single father of a 7 year old boy. i was stationed in california for 9 years before moving back to the st.louis area. i have a steady job and have my own place :) i like to write and perform my own music, watch nascar, have some drinks with friends and hang. i work out when i can although with the life of a single parent it is hard to do a lot. i have 2 dogs ( basset hound and a st.bernard). i feel i am pretty straight to the point about alot of things. i can also be a smartass a lot of times to. i have traveled all over the south pacific, middle east, and many other places. i dont like crazy woman or drama ridden women. don't have the time for all that plus i have to protect my son from all that stuff to. so if you do have drama or your are insane, please move on. if you can't deal with the fact that i have a kid, then move on. i have a few rules, dont screw with me, my family, and especially my son. i tend to be laid back and easy going most of the time. if you do something to get on my bad side, good luck getting back on my good side. once someone burns me, i do not forget or forgive easily.
communication in a relationship is a big thing, if you want things to work, then communicate because when two people say and mean they are willing to work at things, then the communication has to be there. i am pretty open about who i am and my past. once you reach that comfort level with me, then i lay all the cards on the table. i am who i am and if you don't like it, that it's your loss.
music is a big passion in my life. writing and performing it is one of my top loves. the stage is my drug. i got the first taste and was addicted ever since.
what i don't like are people who will say one thing and do another. actions do speak louder than words. i don't like women who leave me hanging without word or answers.


hmmmmmmm, well there are a lot of things to do. drinks are a good start sometimes lol, movies, a dinner, a comedy club, don't neccesarily have to go out to be on a date. like i said before the life of a single parent is hard to get out. i do cook and feel i cook well. so weather it is a date that is going out or not, i am up for anything really.