I would like to meet a warm, generous, kind, grounded man. A man that is easygoing with an open mind, not quick to judge another. Smart and capable,( I love a handy man!) strong and fun, a positive and secure man( but imperfect!!.).............is that you......... thats me too!( the female version). I am a business person, capable and courageous.( I have had to reinvent myself on a few occasions and managed to not only survive but also grow into a much better person!.......thank's God!) I would want my man to understand and feel gratitude. He should think taking good care of oneself is key! Personally I feel very grateful every day for my health!! In my lifetime I have been lucky enough to hear the words beautiful, sexy, special, and talented on several occasions. I am eclectic in taste and I am open to discover life, I love to cuddle on those rainy or snow stormy days ....I just adore a fireplace. I really enjoy cooking, I like children and young adults, and I love dogs! traveling, listening to the ocean, I find the tranquility of the water and sailing renewing!!, dancing and all musical venue's are so exciting to me, I love Anything in N.Y.C. I possess great passion ( i am a great kisser), and I am interested in YOU! ( I like physical sports too) I would like to date a man between the ages of 49-55 in great shape! (emotionally, physically, and relationship skills)....Fitness comes in many ways dont be shy, if you think so, come on. I look forward to meeting you, I realize relationships can be tricky.......but I believe having someone in your life that understands you and loves you/and you him has the potential to be just about the greatest blessing one could ever hope to know!.....here is to the knowing!!!!!! I can't wait!!!!!!

Let's see i think a really good first date..........this is a tough one! If the chemisty is flowing when we meet..............I would say that is a really good first date! P.S A clear understanding and genuine feeling for romance is a must! Gentlemen trust me it is all about the ROMANCE.