Ok I have been on here long enough to realize that everbody that is in my area has already seen my profile, so to everyone that has looked at me here is an update. Things have happened and now I am going to be here for much longer then I had expected, long enough that I don't know how long it will be, years maybe. I've realize from a totally awesome kick ass woman that I met from POF that I want to stop cuddling with my pillow and start sharing my heart with someone that can show me love better then the down feathers I have now!lol I don't know what else to say, I'm good at answering questions so ask away! :-) --- Did I just make a rap right there? Oh snap!

On a serious note though, I come across profiles with people listing all the things they don't want or the only things they will except, I read them and I can only think how it could make someone feel inadequate or you seem unobtainable, in short it seems like vainity. So I want to make a list of things that I DON'T have to have!

1. I don't have to have someone with a super model body.
2. I don't have to have someone who's loaded with money.
3. I don't have to have someone without kids.
4. I don't have to have someone who's a beauty queen.
5. I don't have to have someone who knows where they are going in life.
6. I don't have to have someone who's a specific race! And thats important!

I'm not on a pedestal, you don't have to climb to talk to me! :-)

Well I'm real mellow and can feel comfortable and calm just about anywhere, I love doing anything other then sitting around watching TV. Swimming, hiking, tennis, bowling, skating, rock climbing, golf, having drinks, checking out restaurants, exploring, driving around trying to get lost, TPing houses, mooning passersby! lol Just seeing if you were still reading!