My life is better than wonderful... I'm comfortable with who I am, have a large group of friends and wonderful family here and all over the country. I'm rich in many ways - two beautiful funny kids and my own company, which allows me great flexibility. I'm in great shape, exercise daily... I love entertaining, decorating, cooking, red wine, boating, traveling, dancing, photography, and trying new things (but you sometimes have to make me). I still like going to concerts... love all kinds of music especially when driving very fast (emphasis on very :) I crack myself up and like to use humor as much as possible. I'll admit I'm a bit of a smart aleck, an extrovert ... positive, honest, open-minded and don't let things get me down. I give a lot of myself to the people I care about. I imagine it would be dreamy to have a partner in crime... one day... to have the ultimate of love and friendship.

And who is he? Someone intelligent, with a great sense of humor who is comfortable talking, listening and sharing. He is fairly content with who and where he is in life. Confidence is very attractive... no images or pretenses, mentally healthy and can laugh at himself (and me). And he doesn't even have to know about music because I will teach him! I come with two fun, pretty darn cool daughters and he would obviously have to be understanding about that. He would have a curiosity for life and learning.

And btw... he's not average. Or simple. There's nothing average about me and I'm looking for the same. I'm looking for someone who thinks they're pretty damn special. Are you out there? Can you get crazy... but know when to be serious? Can we inspire and bring out the best in each other? Do you want to experience this world and join me on a trip to Italy or Spain? Because I do and I'm starting to wonder if I will ever find you....

A comfortable location for a drink, coffee or lunch - nothing too big of a deal the first time around...