Every time I think of what I want her to be like, I think of possibilities. Younger, older, tall, short, thin, athletic. Most of those things matter SOME – but what matters the most is who she is. Smart, with an easy sense of humor. Someone I can talk to about anything. Someone who is sexy in her own way, and helps me to feel the same, who always has a smile for me, a hug, a kiss. We laugh and giggle like children. We push the limits because it’s so much fun to laugh and to keep laughing. Thru good, easy times and thru the tough stuff we support one another…. And keep smiling because we know that’s the way to feel good about the situation and each other. There is a ‘look’ in her eye; and I “know” --- I wonder, can she see the “look” in mine? Surely, my smile and willingness will tell her the truth of my sincerity. Life is too short to play games – we understand about love and trust, So, when is it safe to just say “ok, I’m ready” and get on with the joy of sharing a life together?

I would surprise her with something very rare. Great conversation!