In all honesty, I am the kind of person that you will find *more* attractive over time. I may not knock your socks off at first site, but my personality is fun, spunky, and sexy and once you get to know me, you may just want to keep me around. A few words to describe myself are…confident, opinionated, and outgoing. I am NOT afraid to buy a guy a drink and/or make the first move.

I am looking for a confident (not arrogant) guy who has a good sense of humor. Sarcasm is a plus! He must have strong family values, good manners, and good hygiene. He enjoys getting dressed up when going out for a night on the town and is just as comfortable in jeans and flops when hanging out. He would enjoy going to movies as much as I do (or staying home and watching them in bed) and would come shopping with me from time to time. He would enjoy trying out new restaurants, going to events downtown (from ballgames to plays), and drinking wine. He is respectful, loving, and wants to be a father some day. In the end I want honesty and respect and above all else to fall in love with a great guy!

First, I consider the first date different than the first “meeting”. Lets be honest, dating is fun, but who wants to waste time on drinks, dinner, maybe dessert, etc. if there is no chemistry. That said…the first meeting should be simple and not too long. Meeting for coffee or drinks is a good start. Somewhere were you can talk and find out about that other person and test the waters to see if any of that chemistry exists. If it does and you’re having a great time, continue. If not, its time to go home and keep on keeping on!