Is it possible to have a happy loving family life and not be living an act or is that just on T.V.? I hope there are many, but I need to see that there's still a lady out there that's intelligent and understands the idea of a family, that's honest and true.

I have 3 great sons, 22, 16 & 12. Angels they're not but they are the basis of my life and the best part of the last 22 years.

I enjoy having fun, but besides playing woodsball or cards, I'm not a player.

Believe it or not, I'm one of the many good guys that are still out and about looking for that special woman. I've a passion for life and even though hard to find, I don't believe I'm in search of the impossible. I'm just an affectionate, honest guy with an ethical and moral up bringing. So if you like getting drunk every weekend or take drugs then I'm not the one you're looking for and you can stop here.

I don't see things as just black or white and enjoy thinking a little outside of the box, I love getting deep into an idea or conversation. This may sound weird to some, but if you don't enjoy a good conversation with an attractive, intelligent woman then something if definitely wrong.

I'm young at heart and maybe to a fault, in mind also. I'm very family oriented and don't forget where I came from, but never thought I'd be where I am at this stage of my life.

There are so many activities that I enjoy doing, problem is there's not enough time to do them all, that thing called work keeps getting into the way. LOL I guess, I'm a Jack of all trades and a Master of none. When I have time I enjoy playing golf, even miniature. I love to fish, hunt (but not a killing machine), basketball and cards to name a few. There's not an activity I do full time but the closest would be playing scenario or woodsball (a style of paintball). But wouldn't mind trying other things. Although if you want me to jump out of a perfectly good airplane, I can tell you it's not going to happen.

I enjoy working with kids, coaching sports. The kids are to have fun, learn how to work as a team, strive to do their best, winning isn't everything, but it seems they have the most fun when they're winning.

I enjoy calm time too, settling back or snuggling up to watch a sitcom or a movie. I love movies with a twist, like Sixth Sense. I enjoy just going down to the farm and working with the cattle, walking in the woods or along a creek, just seeing nature. Just sit and watch a sunrise or sunset, lay back and gaze at the stars at night, even watch the power of a storm coming in. It's a pleasure to view God's creations. As great as these things are they're better shared with someone special as is all life.

If you can appreciate any of this, then contact me. While I'm looking for a partner, my best friend in life, someone to share life with, I also just love a good conversation but I said that didn't I?

I am honest, but the categories don't give the opportunity to be more specific. I am in the process of quitting as far as if I smoke or not.

That depends on the lady I'm with........

Just an added note... I hope the woman reading this isn't one of them, but there are many more women players than men. If you are writing in your profile that you aren't and you aren't looking for a player, think about it, how many men are you chatting/talking with and how many of them are believing that you want to get to know them whether you are or not? Sweetheart, if that fits.... You maybe turning into exactly what you don't want... A PLAYER!