Okay, the skinny is that I'm a single dad of two great boys that I raise on my own. I won't bore you with too much, but I'm a former professional musician who is totally happy being "just" dad now.
I'd love to meet the great love of my life and ride off into the sunset with her, and I believe it will happen, but I'm a little torn about this online thing...
I don't suffer from any "younger women" issues, I mean, yeah they're nice to look at, but I don't need a trophy (insert any "inadequacy" joke here). I don't mind a wrinkle or two, it's all in how you wear it, plus, I really enjoy relating with someone close to my own age.
Wouldn't it be great to find someone who you can look into their eyes from across a room and know what they're thinking? Someone that you can really believe in? I guess my heart's still strong enough to seek that kind of connection, the reward far outweighs the risk. Call me a dreamer.
Grace, charm, wicked smile, warm heart, tender eyes... Just some of the wish list.
Hit me up, and we'll talk.

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PLEASE READ THIS (and don't confuse my honesty with me being jaded)...

If you have posted pictures of yourself bending over, close to naked, boobs pushed together, or throwing gang signs, please don't take the time to write. I have nothing against erotic photos (if they are for my viewing), but I fear the desperation in publicly leaving far too little to the imagination.
I don't really care what you drive, how many times a week you go to the gym, or if you summer in the Hamptons... My superficial meter is fairly accurate.

SO...

Gold diggers, social climbers and sociopaths should be discouraged as well. Thanks, but no thanks.

Being totally honest, a great ass will probably make me re-think the above...


Is the term 'Lady' obsolete?

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Editorial By Frank Kaiser

As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.

Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her! .

Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress.

Lets see if we can get through a few emails first.