........I'm the sweetest, kindest man she has ever known (at least thats what I think she would say, if I had a sister) I do have two brothers, and they say....well, I'm not going to share that. But, it is all good

An ideal first date would be whatever makes you feel most comfortable. I was married for 10 years, and really understand women and the pressure they are under. So, if given the opportunity to meet you, I would want to meet you under the circumstances that put you at ease. Whether that is coffee, a drink, or dinner, you decide, or my place :)