I am English, currently living in Sacramento...I enjoy life, but would prefer that enjoyment to be accompanied by my 'best friend', my 'lover' and my 'partner' in life. I enjoy both the mental and physical sides of a relationship, and I'm not selfish...in any way. I am truly honest, sincere, caring...and affectionate...all of which I would like from my partner.

My birth certificate tells me I'm now 58...however, I'm trying to prove that it's wrong, and usually succeed in many ways, lol. (Truthfully, in mind, body and soul..I am nothing like my age suggests)

I've worked, traveled and lived in many different parts of the world...with those experiences I bring 'knowledge of life' to the table, and confidence within my life. My first experiences of living in the US were in 1988, until 1997, at which time I returned to the UK..and on to a different wonderful lifestyle. I chose to 'come back' to Sac 4 years ago, to be near my son...so this is where I am, lol.

I 'was' self employed and have always been that way, however 'recession' hits everyone in some way or another, so I count myself lucky that I have now joined a small Security company, as their Sales Manager...early days, but it is interesting. I'm not wealthy neither am I poor...however my wealth should be measured in who and what I am, not what I possess.

My likes and dislikes are not formidable, other than I don't enjoy 'game players', as indeed I am not one!! And I won't entertain 'gold diggers'!! I prefer 'slim to average' women...and I stick to that rule. Ethnicity, and background is not important either, but you are :-)

Humor is important to me, and so is touch. I guess I'm a 'humorous touchy' guy..

A first date....what can I say. I'm not a coffee person (after the first 2 cups in the morning)...so perhaps a 'small' Starbucks to begin with, then who knows where from there....maybe a shopping trip to Raleys?

Sorry, that was a stupid joke...