Hi there! I want to start off on the right foot here so I made this list.

I am ACTUALLY 35
I am ACTUALLY 220 lbs and in pretty decent shape
I am ACTUALLY interested in getting to know you, as opposed to trying to jump into your pants on the first date.
I am ACTUALLY looking for friendship first which LEADS to longterm.
I am ACTUALLY a good guy to know
I am ACTUALLY not into endless emails. Lets just meet and see if something is there.
I am ACTUALLY up for a two day adventure to anywhere.
I am ACTUALLY steadily employed in the same place for 8 years now.
I am ACTUALLY into doing outdoorsy stuff like tennis, hikes, bike rides, beach, etc
I am ACTUALLY able to hold a conversation with you on any topic at all cause I gots smarts and stuff.
I am ACTUALLY a very secure person so go ahead and keep all your guy friends.
I am ACTUALLY a romantic person.......well I'm creative at the very least and it comes from my heart.
I am ACTUALLY a light hearted person
I am ACTUALLY completely dedicated to my sons life but definitely have lots of room left in my heart and in my head.
I am ACTUALLY a geek
I am ACTUALLY a liberal minded free thinker
I am ACTUALLY really into electronic music, Blues, and independant rock.
I am ACTUALLY into sitting on the couch playing cards with music on and a glass of red wine.

So thats me! I'm not to concerned with the past. I have one, you have one, and we're all just moving forward enjoying life. If thats a motto that makes sense to your life, then I'd definitely like to meet you.

The kind of goals I want to set now in my life are goals for two. I miss that sense of joy two people have when they're working on something together.

Lately, in my spare time, i've been playing the drums, spending alot of time outdoors with my dog, and catching up on movies I havent seen. I know, I know....no sky diving here(but i'd totally do it).

Ps. I don't ask for much other then to be engaged MENTALLY when I am with you. Why is that so hard for some? I'm not saying it has to be in depth topical conversations, but I'd like to not sit there thinking "God does she have ANYTHING to say?"

Meet, greet, have a seat, plan something neat, build something sweet, turn up the heat, profiles delete.