Hmmm, well, I am an honest person, sometimes too honest, LOL! Having said that...I lied about my age LOL! Ok, ok I am really 48 not 38, but I dont think I look or act my true age and I definitely dont feel it, oh yeah, and I am attracted to younger men too ;-D...sooo, I put 38, which is closer to the age I feel, but like I said...I'm painfully honest so anyone who takes the time to actually read my profile will know my real age. I am in the process of a divorce, so I am working toward building a better life for myself and my daughter. I like getting dressed up and going out, but I am not one of those women who doesn't like getting dirty, I love paintball with a passion, though I haven't gotten to play as much as I'd like to lately. I love working out. I have lost 100+ lb, kept it off for over 3 years. Stopped working out for a while, but I'm working on getting back into my routine now. I like most kinds of music, rock, pop, hip hop, reggae, a lil country. Love all kinds of movies too! I have a great sense of humor, love to laugh and kid around, and I think that a lot of the problems of the world could be resolved if people could learn not to take themselves too seriously. I like going out and having a few drinks, dancing, partying now and then, but if you drink a lot, or often, don't bother messaging me. Been around one too many guys who turn into ***holes after a few drinks and honestly, I'm really over it...don't have time for that crap anymore. So, if people keep telling you, "dude you shouldn't drink because last night you....." Yeah, keep fishin! I am looking for a guy who can take care of himself. I want someone who is affectionate and passionate, who is considerate of my feelings and treats me with respect...I dunno, nice, but naughty when the situation calls for it? Does that make sense?