If you don’t like yourself, you can’t like other people.

UPDATE: Divorce is pending!!!! WOO HOO

Remember what it feels like to cuddle with someone special, to kiss deeply and passionately, to stare into each other's eyes during intimate moments, the intimacy of pillow talk with bodies close and still entwined, the longing until you're together again? Are you missing quiet walks in the park, holding hands, talking, sharing laughter and good times? Looking for a non-complicated relationship where we can both enjoy each other- without any pressure to expect more from each other than we can possibly give? Me too- someone who isn't just a lover, but a best friend as well.

Relax, I am not going to create one of those "unrealistic" profiles. Down to earth and level headed, I try to keep my life in order while making sure there is PLENTY of room to be spontaneous. I am a positive, energetic, friendly, optimistic guy who's aware of the needs of others around me. I'm lighthearted and laid back- very easy to get to know and a lot of fun to be with. Be prepared- I enjoy being attentive and thoughtful toward the special people in my life.

I am 6'0, 185 lbs, and I work out regularly. I also have a big heart that I tend to wear on my sleeve- sensitive, caring and passionate. I've been on my own since October 2006, am comfortable with who I am and quietly self confident. I find joy and contentment in my relationships and NOT in my possessions.

I've been told that I'm fun to be around, easy to talk to, comfortable to be with- adventurous and spontaneous with a strong mischievous side; Intellectual and wise, giiving good advice to those dear to me but never following it myself (what's up with that?). Is there a bad side? I'm a lousy dancer- but perhaps you can help me with that?

Ladies, take note that I am NOT a player or into head games so you shouldn't be either. Life is too short for those. You'll find that I'm honest, direct, open with my feelings & opinions and have little patience for games. Let's chat and see if the chemistry's right..

Word of warning- I can tell a lot about a person in a very short time- very sensitive & perceptive that way. Be prepared; if you're relying on your ego to pull you through the first date, I'm done. I like real people.

Open to suggestions... Ladies' choice. Somewhere public, yet quiet enough for good conversation, and getting to know each other better.

Female
Age between 36 and 49
Live within 75 miles.