I needed to leave Oregon & Maui to be in Ventura for now, to help care for my elderly folks..(whom I love and appreciate)....Mom & Dad need some help. THIS IS ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS IVE EVER DONE, and Ive been through many! It is emotional seeing your beloved folks slowly fade away. I will go through it all the way with Them. - We are tight, after many years ... Tough ...,but so rewarding! This is Long term, so I only desire friends that understand this, and stick it out with me in this time, then who knows, I just cant think that far ahead. I have rare energy for my age, but at times get a little worn out, ..I need some good fellowship outside of my present situation. I was born and raised here in Ventura, so its not new to me, but very different from Oregon and Maui where I have been living. I miss Oregon for certain reasons, but not the winters!
I choose not to whine about things that don't work out, or have a bad attitude, or try to fix situations, It is, what it was...Things meant to be will last, even friendships, if not, they just fade away sadly. .... My dear ole Momma & Dad have been married 57 years happily. ......So I have had a good example of Love through them.
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Its not WHERE you are but whom your with! I trully am not available for a full time relationship at this time in my life, but would be so nice to have a fun friend to enjoy when we can, that understands where i am at for now, and of course I her. I know it would be rare, but Im a good friend and a blast to have fun with!!!

But maybe fishing the PNW, for brookies , steelhead, and salmon, with my Harley to explore with the wind in our hair, then dance to some good BLUES & Rock sweatin and laughin!. Maybe e a good hike, maybe a Bar B Q , maybe a Sycamore hot springs drive to Avila, maybe a day in the SURF or on the water, maybe chill out be lazy and laugh, maybe if you Play music>make some...........maybe some Dodgers or Lakers, maybe some loving on families, maybe we just dont know, and thats cool, but friendship, safety, with a bit of chuckles, and snickers, and loosning up to break the ice> maybe just friends>maybe not>maybe attracted>maybe not> but surely a good time in store, because I am low drama, and a kick to be with>certainly not boring>respectful to others,as I require for myself>but not so cold to let the hair down to PLAY PARTY PRAY and get in a cool groove !

. . I'm a loving kind-hearted, gentle, loving man, .........wear my heart on my sleeve I'm told, cool man! Good Genes! Lots of Fun ! Not rich, but rich in the spirit!
Do not care for dating .......If I click with someone.....we will let down our hair quickly and know naturally, without drama.....or Big promises...but let 2 people unfold themselves freely without fears and honesty.....so I don't really go on dates, but will go do something with someone cool If we mesh as new friends! ....I guess I'm not really looking, but if I did look, it will be with a friend that knows she wants of me as a friend, and will make the effort to keep that friendship, no matter what if its right! I will not, and do not need to chase women, but would like to meet a woman that is a true life friend in a wise way without being pressuring, and without letting emotions rule, and have power over any personal wants or desires . Im a good man, that has been through trials of life like others, yet I stay positive. thanks to the Lord, and the simple yet powerful gospel Say hi if you feel moved to. Blessings........Aloha
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