Firstly i am wash and wear and can get by with no makeup, sprays and hairdryers. I can be an exceptional conversationalist and beneficial to you if your mind is broad, prefer in person as that is my preferred reality. I like to observe, I listen to smarts. I am Very good company for someone who is both active and can relax, self-assured and confident. Am open to explore if you have any ideas or I do, lets try it. Seeking a big change and new direction with a new partner and very excited about this opportunity. Health and good nutrition is important to me and i enjoy good food and would like you to know the difference. My weight ranges between 60-65kilos, i can be either or between, but like to remain feminine. I am looking for long term ultimately NOW, but understanding to the fact that i dont know you AT ALL until i have been in your presence and around your energy.
Sorry no sex on meeting
( but in a relationship men i believe good sexual communication with strong silent eye contact - no words needed and great kissing between us daily because we connect so well, is a great foundation for whatever else follows ( for me if we have this its a solid base for my interest to build from) and will define where the rest of our relationship can begin and journey to, as an essential to us in longivity.
Please NO SMOKERS, its definately not my thing and i personally never drink alcohol.
I want to use this site as a contact point, must be willing to talk on phone, WEBCAM (screening purposes) to decide if we want to meet in person, travel.
I have a family of 4 children 1 boy 14, and three girls 13,13,8. So please be smart enough to consider this before contacting me as i take both our families seriously. I have a home/mortgage and child maintainance always gets paid. But if you are not family orientated and can't hand such a responsibility then move past this profile please. As I am looking for that man who can look reality in the eye, take a deep breath and brave it. Families is part of a birth/death life cycle, I know it, surely you know it too. Challenge, exceptence as part and parcel and history that comes with us. I cannot tell you all my flaws that would be too embarrassing or revealing at least. I know you would have them too- so lets relax over this and just get honest initially when we need to be.
Must have travelled at least further than VIC,NSW,QLD and has travelling on the agenda because i love travel as much as i do a good homelife. I would love to do home and car swaps in this country and overseas with a partner/family in the very near future, have you thought about that- a great economical way to get around and make travelling with a full family possible and such a wonderful time?
Very important that you can communicate and don't mind being challenged in thought and have an ability to express an opinion with reason as I do.
So if your ultimately scared of responsiblity or never had any and want to know all outcomes now then show me the crystal ball that will tell us this, but please dont be contacting me if you know you are weak- because weak I am not. Vulnerable sometimes, - yes indeed. I am way not perfect and dont expect you to be either, but i am very very very very very real and make myself present.
Other Option Available if i am too old or too young for you or not quite right for you in permanent relationship and you quickly calculated that is -
If you don't fit the above criteria for long term and would like to meet me for smiles and laughter, then sure we could do that and see if its possible to strike up a worthy friendship. Good friends are our cheer squad. Can always do with some good friends scattered around the country,as i travel often, my home in qld is ope

something active where we can do, talk and laugh, discover your humour and your intelligence. Because distance to begin with isnt a problem for me i dont mind going to your place for a weekend or you coming to mine after speaking on the phone and hopefully webcam. Must be my country roots- I certainly have no problem with hospitality the old way. Keep this in mind. If you are coming from interstate Harvey Bay/Fraser coast airport is the closest pick up point from my house and bundaberg closer but that is a smaller airport. Please no emotionally possessive or jealous men, you are no where near my style. I require a very emotionally stable man that needs no one to praise him and that no-one could possibly have the chance to degrade him as he knows himself well regardless of others opinions, with no sarcastic comebacks as a defense. Are you him?